There is a widespread misconception in spiritual circles that enlightenment brings a permanent state of bliss. Many people assume that once someone is enlightened or self realized, they are beyond all “negative” emotions.
This is simply not true.
Because of this myth, many seekers feel like they’ve failed or that something is wrong with them whenever they experience anger, sadness, fear, loneliness, jealousy, or other “negative” emotions.
Even highly realized beings still experience the full range of human emotions. Nisargadatta Maharaj was known for his fiery temper. Baba Muktananda could become extremely angry and intense. Jesus became so enraged that he overturned the tables of the money changers in the temple and drove them out with a whip. Alan Watts struggled with severe mood swings and depression, eventually drinking himself to death. St. John of the Cross endured the “Dark Night of the Soul” — a prolonged period of deep spiritual despair.
Modern teacher Adyashanti has openly spoken about still experiencing anger and other difficult emotions long after his awakening. Many realized masters have also spoken about feeling deep sadness and grief when a loved one or close disciple dies.
Don’t expect enlightenment to bring you permanent bliss. It simply doesn’t work that way.
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